My Love affair with a Pornstar. How I was conned

[philippe xxx]

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Well, that was nicely written, isn't it. See viewtopic.php?f=1&t=16837&start=60#p205572

[IMaRetArd]

o wow....im almost speechless. Im not gonna say that ur stupid or innocent, or mean and abusive or something. As far as i could tell it seemed strange to go for someone doing escorting and talk bout some personal things but never really dealing with the personal issues of someone. In the end is just like one big scam, sorta like an act to "keep" her client under wraps, which in the end just ended with attempts of getting the most out of the "source of income". At same time bein pushed by her pimp and addicted to drugs is like a one way trip down, so...sad story indeed.

However, to bein someone that buys her for sex and to expect something outta the ordinary seems kinda far fetched to my ears. Not exactly an innocent girl to start with, but then u gotta wonder what in the first place it is that makes her go forward with her life, and what it is that she really wants out of it. What is it that she values and why? In what way does she reach her goals? The world is a very hard place indeed a line between reality, trust and belief, and the reality of a scarred soul....hmm ok now im getting deep anyways....thx for sharing, is interesting when someone openly states such personal (embarrassing and painful for sure) things. This is just my opinions so, dont take things literally

i mean stories about being conned isnt really unique but still..interesting to see some facts as to how.

[fallon]

Well what I have learned during doing the Escort-Thing: Even the most Intelligent, most Self-Confident Girls - like for example the girl on my Display-Picture - have A Pimp behind them who manages everything...In this Case, he even threatenend to kill me, because I told his Girl, that he's an idiot and she should get rid of this Scumbag.

[Patrick2]

What I took out of this story is that if you are going to pay a prostitute to have sex with you then pay her, have sex then leave and don't look back. The fact that a prositute also performs in porn movie is irrelevant. You and I don't know her any better because of that. We sometimes think we do but it's an illusion. I'm going to go on a stretch and say that most of these girls would rather not have sex with a bunch of strangers and that's regardless of how generous, nice or good looking the guys happens to be.

These girls are doing something that earns them a lot of money in a very short amount of time and yet no mottaer how much money they seam to earn. A year later they are still escorting so clearly the money they make is either spent on dubious things, drugs and alcohol or substaining a way of life for her and her suitcase pimp that is beyond anyone's means.

[dap-addict]

o wow....im almost speechless.

Very much had the same feelings. Very open post, indeed!
And very sad, too. I think, philipp, there are so many girls out there in the world to deserve your careing, but it doesnt need to be a escorting porn girl.
Better separate love and sex. Just book the current porn girl of your dreams once in a while, fuck her and pay for it, but dont look back!
Its a service like their film appearances providing you with fun.
...all the rest is too troubling and complicated to get involved in. The more as here "Bianca" is a victim, too. Her lies are forced upon her, a viscious cirle. Sad story.

[dap-addict]

I wonder what real options she`d have?
Just quit her addictions is easy said.
And what would it change, anyway?
Sad story, but adventurous phil for sure!

[karasek]

Interesting story, thanks a lot. It probably comes down to an old proverb (since you know German): "Beim Geld hört die Freundschaft auf" (money and friendship don't mix). Simple but true. I had a similar experience with a camgirl once. We became pretty close and one day she asked for money too. I refused, explained her the reason and she became a bitch. Only give money if you know and control the situation and circumstances.

[paroxysmia]

Now, we want her name!

[Winston]

As if you don't know.

I don't know.

Is it a name that is supposed to be obvious to some that might know a little bit about
the business and these type of situations?

[paroxysmia]

I guess regular readers of the escort thread are aware of her name. I'm just a poor lurker and I dunno.

[chris]

Read the previous and recent posts of the owner of this topic and you'll find very easily who she is

[dap-addict]

Cant find it anymore now but phil mentions the Hungarian Erotic Fair makeing it all clear instantly who Bianca is.

[alexxx]

Cher Philippe,
I can imagine your feelings...I felt the same years ago while I was following (crazy) castings of (very crazy) newbies.
Even if it can sound rude, however I have to agree with most of the comments above: "enjoy and never look back".
This sound quite similar to the motto of one producer who was "we'll shoot (in his words was meaning "fucking in every way and hole") them one minute per every euro we gave them". Looking at his results (and success), I think he was right.

But,if you look back, then check the lady is feeling the same towards you..... otherwise you will loose just your health and time (and money too).

Anyway, porn and prostitution are just incidental...the same happens every day in the real life of many average people.
Men (and women) often loose themselves because of somebody else who, finally, exploit them.

[Winston]

Read the previous and recent posts of the owner of this topic and you'll find very easily who she is

Thanks chris.

...but I'm just wondering...is there some rule against publishing her stage name on here in this message thread?

I think that I might now know who she is....but I am far from being totally sure.
(...and not that it really matters....but after reading the story..I'm kind of interested in knowing.)

[opap]

if i would own those horrible fake tits this prostitute (name ./. Spears) has, i would need to be stoned forever to bear them
i wonder,if the obsessed punter paid for the boob job in the end