Cayenne Klein wrote:What the hell, apparently I became so popular in this topic... LOL, that makes me wanna respond...
I'm moving to London (bored of Hungary since a very long time!) and it's super expensive, so I wanted to make a little extra pocket money.
I'm not ashamed of it, we all give a service to make money in order to pay our bills. Whether you are a receptionist, a doctor, a photographer, a waitress etc. you do a service of some kind, with some part of your body.
Hypocrisy to deny that.
So guess what? I tried this business. Not ashamed of it.
After all I have sex with strangers all the time on shootings, so I figured who knows, it seems very similar & I see many girls are happy with it, lets try and see what happens.
But this is nothing like porn! On shootings everybody's friendly & respectful with the other.
In escort (and I only speak of my own & very short experience) I met more PIECE OF SHIT, RUDE PEOPLE in 4 days than in porn during 5 years of shooting (Not all, but 75%of the guys)
These guys might as well buy a piece of steak, cut a hole in it, and fuck that! No difference for them.
And than again, its not my shame, its theirs!
Remember, just cause you have a penis, you're not a man, being a polite gentleman makes you a man in whatever situation you are!
They're not interested in my personality or anybody being sweet & intelligent with them.
Having sex with strangers (well protected with test or condom!) is one thing.
But meeting low class, non-intelligent, rude people (I'm really not talking about the looks, I guess I got lucky, they were all fine looking) and being friendly with them is more humiliating than I've ever expected!!! (I'm talking about the tone they use, or the face they make...you get an impression)
However I'm happy I tried cause I'm not wondering anymore if those girls who do this biz have a fabulous life or not...
But it's not for me for sure, and that's why I told them to cancel my tour after only 4 days.
By the way the British agency was so understanding & cool about my decision. And Cameron too (my Hungarian agent - super-flexible!) told me, ok, she's gonna try to find some real shootings for me in London while I'm here.
So I'm just fascinated how there's absolutely no drama with anyone I'm trying to work with except you Ricardo. No offense, no bad feelings but seriously, think about it!...
Bravo!
Finally there is a lady who worked in this business who decided to speak. Because after 218 pages of this thread, this is what bothered me the most. Many guys talk about escort girls on internet and exchange their experiences, but we never hear from the people who do this work, and it's very important to also hear their views.
It's true that there is a lot of hypocrisy about escort work, because like you said, many people don't have respect but at the same time demand a lot from the girls. If people would have some feeling for empathy or understand about how the girl feels, they wouldn't behave so. But that's just the problem with this work, because most people who have these social capacities also have girlfriends at home or step up to a girl in a local bar instead, because that's much cheaper for them. So in some way, it's a kind of "social work" to do this job, because you have to deal with the more difficult characters. And that's also why I respect the ladies who do this work A LOT, because I can imagine what "piece of shit" they have to deal with, like you said. I'm glad that you were lucky with the British agency, and that they understood your situation, because you are right that it's very different work than being a porn model. And I hope that other girls can give their opinion too, good or bad, because I have the idea that some men posting in this thread still need to understand that they deal with humans, with feelings, with ladies who offer a service, and not with an "object" that they can "buy".
And maybe you were very unlucky in these few days, but 75% is a lot.
I had expected at least a majority of people who know how to behave themselves with a lady.
