by pplolo on Fri Sep 19, 2008 12:46 pm
i think that you do not have to take for granted what everybody said.
People like dap-addict are almost crazy and are on a downward spiral.they would be happy if somebody could handle 4 cocks,it is not even sex it is madness.
I think it is very important to tell what you want to do and what you do not accept,you must not think "i will do what i can" because you can meet people
that will profit from this weakness to push you further.
The most popular girl in this business almost do only girl-girl scenes and maybe it pays less but it is maybe more acceptable for you and they last longer in the business.
Porno business is a lot about fantasy,and people keep watching a girl because they hope one day they will do some boy/girl scene,once she did it they may drop their fantasies on another girl and you may be out of business.That is why if you accept to do some tough stuff it is bad both for you (if do not like it) and for you career.
Just check girls like peaches,sandy,sophie moon or bamby and watch how they manage their career they do it very progressively.
I think you should also check who wants to work with you and what they do,how they work.
I think frigo may be of help and give you some advices because he is very aware of how the business works.
Even if i do not know him,i think viv thomas is someone you can trust,
Maybe you can check its site vivthomas.com and see what he does,then you may contact him for work,if what he does seems ok for you.
I think you would better check websites and see what stuff they propose,
and if you find it acceptable,you can contact them for work.
i think it is a better way to proceed than to wait for people calling you,
because even if you do not enjoy very much doing this at least you can have some control on the work you do.
good luck.