Anal on the first date?

[Lee]

Come on guys, show the girl some respect. At least buy her flowers before fucking her ass!

[dap-addict]

Depends on what you mean.
For me personally, on a one night stand, then sure. But a girl I'm going out with, no. Call me a softie but respect means alot to me.

Dont know what this has to do with respect.
If the girl is into it you show respect pleasing her no matter wheter its on the first date or later.
Looks like the best place is Brasil, than Russia, than Czech, Ukraine and Romania. Certainly not the US.

But this discussion sure doenst belong here.

[gapefetish]

Hi guys!

I totally agree with Lee, not on the first date, well it would turn into a one night stand cause i could not fall for a girl that adventurous. if she's willing to do that to you and you don't know her too well it's because she did that with most men and i would be scared to catch std's . The thing is now that i'm sooo turn on by gapes (and my new queen is Alysa of course) but in my actual life it doesn't work that way. I have a gorgeous girl and i think she's in love with me, she's not into anal but she wants to please me, and with her i've tried once, damned it was tight and i came i less than 3 minutes but it made me feel strange and akward. am i wrong? she's offering it and got such a nice butt any guy could kill for that and i dunno it's like i love the fantasy with porn stars but with a chick that i truly respect and care about i can't !!! should it be the total opposite??? just wondering ...

[Johnny Black]

Here in England, girls unfortunately aren't into anal. However every girl I've had anal sex with has being European. I've had anal sex with a German woman, 2 Polish girls, 1 Russian girl and 1 Slovak woman. Anal sex is essential for me, that's why I prefer European girls because they are more adventurous in sex and more feminine.

[Gizmo666]

Hm, but correctly said, England is also Europe, as the countrys you mentioded ^^.

But I agree, it is hard to find girls from west-europe doing anal. anal seems to be some thing, the girls from east-europe seems to prefer more. And they are much more open minded, then wet ones, I would say.

[dejanbear]

anal seems to be some thing, the girls from east-europe seems to prefer more. And they are much more open minded, then wet ones, I would say.

I am from east Europe and i don't agree that here girls are much more open minded. My experience says opposite.
But, when i go to west i find easy girls. And when you go to east, i suppose you don't look girls to marry with

About porn, there are many more girls from east because of money (lack of money).

[KDB]

Anal WILL happen on the first date IF girl LOVES anal. I know.

[Bad Samaritan]

Hm, but correctly said, England is also Europe, as the countrys you mentioded ^^.

England is not Europe, only the far eastern fringe of the United States.

[Gizmo666]

Okay, thats a point

[Liger14]

On a first date? Seriously?

In most parts of the world, kissing isn't even allowed on the first date. Unless you're the ultimate pimp and you have some form of magical hold over females, sex(much less anal sex) wont happen outside of a one night stand!

[Bad Samaritan]

I can't believe how so many people rush to "contribute" although this topic doesn't even belong here.

My conclusions:

1. Sexual behaviour is mostly preconditioned by social norms but there are people in all societies who have a taste for acting out of norms.

2. I've met girls who preferred anal sex over vaginal sex very much. However, the point is that most are not comfortable in expressing this preference freely. A more complex issue of female gender roles in sexual life and human psychology in general.

3. Go to Brazil!

[zorg]

For the last 10 years ... 100% of the girls I met did anal sex ... but sometimes it took months !!!!

My actual girlfriend is a diamond : she prefere anal sex !!!! but I NEVER met another girl like her by the past !

[Liger14]

3. Go to Brazil!

Agreed! Definitely on my to do list.

[robot]

i m curious to see how long this dimwitted thread will last..

[tcb121]

Totally depends on how much money you have. If your just an average Joe with little to no money, the percentage chance goes way down. If you got some cash to flash and a chic thinks that she can tap into to some of it, the percentage chance goes up.